The” Webster’s Dictionary” defines to persist as to continue steadily or firmly in some state, purpose or course of action. Persistence I believe is an essential ingredient in the recipe for a good marriage. What I have seen often as a therapist, mediator and coach is that many couples give up too easily. If everything doesn’t go well, they think that they just have the wrong partner.

With our changing world, needs in a relationship are increasing. Today so much is expected and wanted in a marriage. With industries transforming , the economy wavering, women earning as much if not more than their male partners, divorce examples abounding individuals generally are requiring much more in this intimate relationship to take a chance a tying the knot. Each spouse wants a lover, friend, spiritual guide, coach, financial partner, co-parent, recreation director, sports enthusiast, fabulous in bed, home repair, tech wizard, food expert, interior designer, etc.

Whatever it is that we want, we must be willing to give it back. That’s the deal. 100% effort on both spouse’s part is needed.. One person doing more than their share won’t work. So commit today to do the work needed to have a glorious marriage. Share daily about your life, your needs, their needs and most of all your devotion. Use good conflict resolution tools and remember to touch often. As you get to say, ‘I love you”,you will be so glad you persisted.

Check out my just released book,”Creating Love For A Lifetime-The Five C’s To A Successful Marriage” at Balboapress.com. I’ll be happy to refer you to other great resources as well at www.kathyinfeld.com

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